Discipline or desire?

Which works best for high performing individuals? 

I hear people say it a lot. 

‘I just need to be disciplined. Then I’ll get the results I want.’ 

I don’t agree. 

To me, discipline doesn’t sound much fun. 

In fact, it sounds like quite a lot of effort. 

Which means that sometimes you’ll have the energy to be disciplined, but sometimes you probably won’t. 

Usually, anything that’s isn’t fun, requires a lot of effort and is dependent on the mood of the moment, doesn’t lead to sustainable change. 

I’m much happier when people express a desire to make the changes that will move them towards the results they want with their energy, focus and performance. 

The notion of being disciplined often arises when people contemplate the lifestyle changes they think they SHOULD make. 

This can quickly shift to desire if you shift the focus slightly to the lifestyle changes you really WANT to make, why these changes are important to you, what concrete and aspirational difference they will make to your life now and in the future.

The adjustment in attitude is subtle, but the difference it will make to your results is dramatic. 

And it’s a very easy strategy to implement. You can feel it.

When making plans that will require discipline, often people already begin to feel a little overwhelmed and demotivated. 

Not a great start. 

But when making plans for a future life that you’d love to live, people immediately begin to feel optimistic and motivated. 

That’s the feeling you’re looking for. 

It will get you started and keep you inspired. 

Discipline can feel like a punishment.

Desire drives consistent, positive action.

I've long been fascinated by this area. Here's a post I wrote a while back:

Discipline is Destiny: or is it?